I get a lot of requests for speaking engagements.
A lot.
Most of the time I actually know who the audience will be. I've addressed more than 50 historical societies, dozens of reading groups, several museum groups and enough Rotary and Kiwanis luncheons to make me feel like the Toastmaster General of the U.S.
But some groups are trickier. Sororities and fraternities with their archaic Greek symbols confuse me. And there have been "secret societies," loosely formed reading circles, and clubs with names like "Pioneers," "Innovators" and "Star Gazers." They all proved far less mysterious in realty than they sounded.
Which leads me to PEO.
A few months back I was invited to keynote a banquet for PEO at the Traditions at the Glen Resort in Johnson City. I had no idea who they were.
They turned out to be a group of 75 energetic and charitable women who focus their activities on the advancement of women through fellowship, financial largesse and a spirit of sisterhood. I had a great time.
Three weeks ago, I was invited to keynote a banquet for the PEO in Peterboro. Upon arrival at the stunning Charlotte Amalie Inn, I was confronted with another 50 women from around central New York who also belonged to this group.
Hmm. I sensed a pattern forming here.
Last Saturday, I was the featured speaker for yet another PEO chapter at the Otesaga Hotel in Cooperstown. More than three dozen women made this a most pleasurable experience for me. They were from Oneonta, Cooperstown and all the surrounding communities. I knew many of them.
It was time to get serious. What the heck is PEO? Is there a secret handshake involved? Are there behind-closed-doors rituals and incantations? Was there a mascot?
Hardly.
The Philanthropic Educational Organization is an amazing group of women with an incredible track record of benevolence and involvement. PEO began in 1869 at Iowa Wesleyan College. As an alternative to a sorority, this loosely based group was formed to help one another reach goals that seemed somewhat out of reach to women a century and a half ago.
Today, there are a quarter-million members of PEO in the U.S. and Canada. Their main thrust is educational philanthropy, and they contribute to the betterment of women everywhere with more than a half-dozen well-funded scholarships.
The PEO ladies I have come in contact with are from all stages of life. Most are 60 or older, retired, caring and all with a deep passion for helping women gain a toehold on the ladder of success. There are businesswomen, writers, housewives and a preponderance of retired educators. I have been richly rewarded to have been in their midst.
And this is one ambitious group, too! They even own their own college. A real-life, bricks and mortar, ivy-covered-walls college. It is Cottey College, built in 1884, in Nevada, Mo. It covers 11 city blocks, and awards bachelor's degrees in several fields of study. Three hundred and fifty students attend annually. And PEO owns it all _ lock, stock and dorm rooms.
I mean, who owns a college today?
I decided to contact Cottey College's president.
"Cottey is a special place," Dr. Judy Rogers, president, told me. "Each year we have students from more than 40 states and 20 countries enroll with us. We have a 10-to-1 student-to-faculty ratio. And of course the PEOs love and support their college, which they have owned outright since 1927. They support Cottey through their dues, personal gifts and scholarships."
I asked Dr. Rogers if the school had a motto.
"We often say, 'Cottey is for women, by women and about women,'" she told me.
Cottey's oldest financial outreach program is the Educational Loan Fund (established in 1907), which provides for women who desire higher education and are in need of financial assistance. Regional PEO chapters suggest applicant names. Other programs funded by the sisterhood are merit-based, or for cross-border education with Canada, or for doctoral or post-doctoral studies. They even have a fund, established in 1973, for women returning to school to support themselves and their families after their studies have been interrupted.
PEO is a great organization. It does a tremendous amount of good but does it quietly. Very quietly.
I mean, have you ever heard of PEO before? I didn't think so. (It does have its own college, don't you know.)
If you'd like more information about this sisterhood, find PEO online at www.peointernational.org, or, locally, call Ginger Heitz at 547-9735.
I'll catch you in two ...
'Big Chuck' D'Imperio can be heard on weekdays beginning at 6 a.m. on WDOS-AM 730 in Oneonta, and also on Thursday nights from 7-9 p.m. on WSRK-FM 103.9 for his "Oldies Jukebox Show." You can find "Big Chuck" on Facebook under Upstate New York Books. He invites you to contact him at wdosbigchuck@aol.com. His columns can be found at www.thedailystar.com/bigchuck.
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Many WWII pilots first saw liftoff at Sidney's airport
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A salute to those who helped make National Women's History Month
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All Oneontans have memories of Bresees'
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- Monday, February 13, 2012
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George Wallace gives us the 'one-finger salute'
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When delivering papers was all in a day's work
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- Monday, January 16, 2012
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Readers who write get a little feedback
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- Tuesday, January 3, 2012
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I Was Just Thinking: Inventors, writers and others pass on in 2011
Plenty of ink was spilled this year reporting on the passage of such giants as Steve Jobs, Andy Rooney, Elizabeth Taylor and a couple of baddies named bin Laden and Gadhafi. But let's take a peek behind the final curtain and see who else merits a tip of the hat.
- Monday, December 19, 2011
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I Was Just Thinking: Stella turned me into a pet person
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- Monday, December 5, 2011
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I Was Just Thinking: Waiting for a friendly wave that never came
My earliest recollection of taking a train ride was when my dad would take me and my brother Jim and sister Fran on the train from Sidney down to the Afton Fair. Mom would greet us at the crossings along the way with a baby in her arms and a big wave to the four of us.
- Monday, November 21, 2011
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I Was Just Thinking: Local youngster created amazing tribute to veterans
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- Monday, November 7, 2011
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I Was Just Thinking: Remembering my small glimpse of the Cuban Missle Crisis
I read recently in a newspaper that the U.S. was beginning a "year-long observance of the 50th anniversary of the Cuban Missile Crisis, culminating in October 2012." Fifty years? I'd been following the crisis on TV as my mom and dad fretted over the news being presented by the dour-faced men in gray business suits who gave us the news each night on our brand-new Zenith television set.
- Monday, October 24, 2011
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I Was Just Thinking: A remote-controlled cooler sounds enticing
Here they come! I am ready to gird myself against the onslaught of junk mail that is starting to roll in for the holidays already. I do not buy from catalogs. Never have. Don't even read them. North Face? L.L. Bean? Omaha Steaks? Vermont Country Store? No thanks. Except for one.
- Monday, October 10, 2011
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I Was Just Thinking: I never took a hike in my life; would do it again
"Take a hike!" That is what my father used to tell me when he'd had enough of my smart talk as a kid. Unfortunately, I never took that hike. In fact, I don't think I've ever hiked in my life, either formally or informally.
- Monday, September 26, 2011
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I Was Just Thinking: Local traffic's got nothing on LA
I will never complain about traffic again. I just got back from a wonderful vacation with my daughter, Frances, in Los Angeles. I had lived there many years (and a million people) ago. While I was there from 1974 to 1980, I saw this exciting and vibrant city through the eyes of a longhaired wanderer. It was great.
- Saturday, September 10, 2011
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I Was Just Thinking: 9/11 is behind us but we'll never be the same
Since the horror of Sept. 11, 2001 is now a decade in the past, many will use this as a time to reflect on how our nation has changed since my generation's Pearl Harbor was visited upon our country.
- Saturday, September 3, 2011
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I Was Just Thinking: 'Radioathon' was about more than just donations; it meant love, sharing
Over the years I have been involved with many fundraising efforts at our radio stations. As far back as the Oklahoma City bombing in 1995. We raised a thousand dollars in change and turned Main Street Oneonta into one large collection bucket.
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